If you play computer-based wargames but cannot find a partner, I suggest joining the Blitzkrieg Wargaming Club, or more affectionately known as "The Blitz".
I used to get some great gaming partners from this site. The strength of this club stems from the players willing to do PBEM and the sheer variety games played. Very worthwhile to join up (which incidently is FREE!). I'm currently trying to find partners willing to play Combat Mission: Beyond Overlord.